Holy moly – Gerry and Catherina – beacons of deep, deep love and devotion.
What Catherina & Gerry’s Relationship Program and Retreats Make Possible
Catherina and Gerry’s programs create a unique space where true honesty flourishes and hiding is no longer necessary. Individuals and couples experience profound transformation—gaining the courage to speak from the heart, even when vulnerable, and discovering the freedom that arises when fear is finally faced head-on.
Participants learn to dismantle lifelong patterns of fear, self-protection, and people-pleasing, and instead are supported in showing up as their most authentic selves. The process reveals that our deepest truths and wounds, when met with compassion, can become doorways to powerful love and connection—both with ourselves and with our partners.
Couples are guided through moments of profound honesty, where both terror and freedom are present, allowing them to see and support each other at the deepest levels. Old relational patterns dissolve, making space for real intimacy and understanding. Through Catherina and Gerry’s QUEST approach, clarity replaces confusion, and illusions give way to the reality of presence and love.
This journey nurtures a partnership where you can recognize when you operate from fear or love, mind or heart, and how to choose deeper support for your own and each other’s true selves. The result is a courageous step into a future lived with authenticity, vulnerability, and a new strength—and relationships that are more honest, loving, and resilient than you ever imagined.
“You want to see how a life of love is lived? Meet Gerry and Catherina. Spending time with them one-on-one was the most potent experience of my life! They allowed me to truly ‘see’ that it can be done. Words cannot explain what experiencing these two in person is like. I promise you, that dormant part of your soul, which you haven’t been able to see, will ignite within you, as you bask in their awe-inspiring, loving and awakened presence. Fear takes a back seat with these two angels and love leads the way.
Gerry and Catherina are rare, inspiring gifts to humanity – seriously. They have shown me what a twin soul union truly is – the marriage between healing the rarest parts of us as individuals, as we come together as mirrors for eachother, as one. There’s fire and there’s potent, deep depths of love – the light and dark. Gerry and Catherina, really emanate, with pure loving honesty, the bullshit limiting beliefs that collective human consciousness is experiencing right now and are leading the way. They beam honesty in owning their ‘shit’ as a devoted couple of love, as they work together to rise into more of the love that they are, as individuals, therefore as one.
They have taught me everything I know about who I am – LOVE – and how to grow as one in my own twin union with my Michael – the potent love and the vulnerable moments where I feel like running away – they have given me the tools and held the space for me to grow and transform into more of the love that I am, therefore my Michael too. Their dedication to love has been imprinted in me and I am the most grateful person alive to have found these two.
Thankyou from the deepest depths of my heart for coming into my life. I love you both so much”
Tania Veronese
Founder and Coach Seed of Freedom Australia
“Gerry and Catherina are the true definition of spiritual warriors. They really do live the love they teach. What I like the most about their training is that they put their own human vulnerabilities front and center in the curriculum. There is nothing bookish about the work they do. It is guided from their own first hand journey through living a new definition of what it means to be in a love relationship. One of the greatest pain points on the planet right now is the careening of an outmoded definition of romantic love from the heights of ecstasy to the torments of break up and divorce. The new model of romantic love is what they teach. More admirably, its what they live. Don’t expect it to be perfect. Expect it to be honest. Where love of self is at the center of love of another. If they are any indication, it is a road map for a more sustainable way of navigating committed love relationships, where joy is a daily centerpiece, not sacrifice and compromise.”
LUCAS DONAT | CEO | tinyREBELLION
“What can I say? Would it be too dramatic to say Gerry and Catherina changed my life?
No!!
When I met them, my career and life were plateauing. I was doing okay but I knew I was capable of more and I kept hitting the same self created glass ceiling.
My personal quest journey helped me bust through the bullshit I was telling myself that kept me trapped and small and dull. I learnt really practical ways to uncover and release what I am capable of and hand on my heart, I keep in daily practise so that every day I am more and more embodied in my own truth and integrity.
Through my coach training I’m transforming my work and spreading the joy of this powerful work through being me more and helping others get to the root of what keeps them trapped and small and dull.
On a day to day basis I am so much happier, fulfilled, balanced.
Gerry and Catherina are shining light showing the way; filled with love and warmth and challenge, they role model what they stand for through how they are; showing what’s possible and deserved for us all.”
It’s impossible for me to thank them enough and I know I do in being me
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Nikki Hinksman Director/Coach You-InFocus London
“Catherina and Gerry know the truth: we are love. and with that, they make no attempts to deny any part of the human experience. They speak of ego, they speak of rage-yet there is no unconscious identification with it. They support each other’s commitment to return to the truth individually and together. This makes their love more real, more human. A love that doesn’t deny any part of the human experience but sees and embraces it all, and then consciously chooses to shine the light of love in the midst of everything that isn’t”.
Maya-Lin Green
I first spoke with Catherina in mid-January 2013 on a Quest intro call. She described the purpose and how the model would assist discovering the truth of who I am and how this would facilitate growth in all areas of my life, financial, emotional, spiritual and romantic. I could feel Catherina’s unabashed honesty about her life, path choices, and relationships…especially relating to Gerry. She does not pretend. She is present in the moment and candid about her own truth. In that moment, I knew this experience was perfect for me. The relationship she has with herself, and therefore others, was exactly what I had been searching for. So with little hesitance I began my Personal Quest with Think Love.
For months I worked with mostly Catherina and at times Gerry, but always separately. It wasn’t until I went to Bali for the Quest Coach training that I was able to see how they love and interact with each other. This intimate setting provided a raw unfiltered view into their relationship and how they live the principles of Quest in how they deal with each other. From a place of self-love they hold themselves to their truth and integrity. They diligently maintain a state self-awareness, allowing for bold and sincere communication. Practicing this unique consciousness creates opportunity for reflection and the ability to change reality through their thoughts, emotions and behaviors. The continual self-discovery fosters expansion of love within themselves, each other and the world.
Catherina and Gerry are evidence that this unseen, almost mythical way of loving truly exists. Spending time with them is what I would imagine swimming with mermaids would be like, freeing and exciting. Their love is inspirational and has provided me with a new prospective on love and life; something I once believed was impossible or unattainable is now within my grasp. Through them, I have been able to release my self-limiting thoughts which held me back from love and all I am meant to be. I can say with utmost enthusiasm that they have helped change my view of love, life and all that is before me.
Andrea Crawford
The experience with QUEST’s relationship journey is a level of honesty I have never experienced before. There is no space for hiding, and within that I have experienced the deepest layers of myself. the depth of layers continue to be shown to be as I continue to be on this journey with Catherina and Gerry.
It has allowed to me speak from my heart, even while my voice shook to the core. I have always craved the ability to be loved for being my most raw self.
The fear of being loved for being my most vulnerable self has crippled me for my lifetime. I have catered and molded myself to every person in my life, every intimate relationship, and every familial one. I hit rock bottom and finally imploded 5 months ago when Bryan came into my life.
Me and Bryan were facilitated and were able to QUEST each other during my first retreat in New York. Every fear of mine locked in with Bryan’s as we sat staring eye to eye as we both experienced profound terror and freedom simultaneously. Every intimate relationship I have
ever known before that moment simply vanished, as I knew I would no longer be able to hide myself every again. He was able to see the profound fear and consequences of being myself within my own childhood with my father and the continual acting out of that fear. I was able to see his fears of abandonment. Truly, they are the same fears disguised in different clothing.
Recognizing how much that fear had crucified me for so long was the only way I was able to step into the freedom of possibility on the other side. The QUEST process was able to isolate what had been happening between us in a way where I was able to understand it and experience it within my body.
I have learned that being honest and myself does not equate not being loved. In fact, it can only mean the opposite. Being able to hear Bryan’s experiences and working through the discomfort of them has gifted me with greater strength. My fears of facing reality most often have been illusions that have kept me experiencing life the same way over and over again.
QUEST has enabled both me and Bryan to be able to recognize when either of us is coming from our mind rather than our hearts. In being aware of that within ourselves, we are able to support one another in a much deeper way sifting through the mud to dive into the clear waters together (Who we really are).
I am excited to see and feel how QUEST will continue to gift its presence into my life.
Silvy Khoucasian
QUEST Coaching for Couples is like being able to hit refresh on the relationship every time there’s some difficulty between us. No matter what problem is bogging us down, no matter how charged or challenging it is, consistently doing the QUEST work with Catherina and Gerry has enabled both me and my girlfriend to continually get clear about where the true responsibility for our happiness lives: in ourselves, not in the other person. From this place, we’re able to both show up as our authentic selves, without needing to prove anything, or hide anything, either, and just be who we truly are with each other. As a result, we’re experiencing the most delicious freedom and ease in just being ourselves together.
Bryan Reeves
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